I have a feeling J's girlfriend understands him on one level but not on any others. Come on, aren't most guys big kids anyway? Can't really give her much credit. I know I enjoy watching cartoons and reading comics and I'm a grown man! I"m also a pretty responsible man. She should really pay more attention to the man he is and stop trying to make him into something he's not. Hopefully, this talk will give them both something to think about though. J can really decide what he needs in a relationship and possibly end this one.
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