3 Reasons to Turn Off the TV and Make Stuff Again
/The power of producing for others can change your life for the better.
Illustrated by the author.
In the 1930s, thousands of people lined up to view the Dionne Quintuplets on display in a hospital nursery in Ontario, Canada.
Back then, no one knew having five babies at one time was possible—they had to see it to believe it.
The Canadian government passed a bill making the babies Yvonne, Annette, Cecile, Emilie, and Marie wards of the state. After all, how could one married couple possibly take care of so many babies at once?
Audiences paid to peek into display windows and watch the children grow up over almost ten years, putting half a billion dollars in the Canadian government's pocket.
People not only love to be entertained but awed. Seeing something fresh, groundbreaking, and new excites the imagination and creates envy in all your friends when you share your experiences.
It didn’t matter who you were. Celebrities came from far and wide to see the quintuplets in real life. Notable names at the time like Mae West, Jimmy Stewart, Clark Gable, and even a young future Queen Elizabeth II.
The Dionne quintuplets courtesy of Wikimedia Commons.
You may find it strange, or a bit twisted that people would pay to watch children through small windows at a hospital for enjoyment, but what else could they do?
Without the internet and television, radio and movies could only go so far. Plus, your choices were minimal in those days—no endless stream of shows and content like what we have now. You had to talk with friends, share stories around a fire or at the dinner table, play games, and actually go outside.
Using your imagination along with your social skills was vital.
What if you were a creator who desired to share your gifts with the world? Fat chance. One hundred years ago, there'd be limited outlets to share your passions and interests widely. You could be a local actor or musician in your town or risk your life traveling to New York or taking a boat overseas to Europe.
A century ago, providing for the basics—food, clothing, and shelter—was hard enough. Our world is more miniature thanks to the internet and media, but it's making people complacent.
Who needs to create or write their stuff when you can turn on the TV, look at your phone, or open a laptop anytime and be entertained?
When you think about some ridiculous videos people, watch on YouTube or vapid reality shows where people yell at each other that you can endlessly stream, it's not far off from watching five siblings playing in a room for entertainment. A lot of it is cruel and unethical.
Turn it off.
Let's say you're someone who works hard all day and wants to come home to a beer and several hours of watching screens. That's cool, some of the time.
We all need to kick back and relax here and there.
But what if you spent a bit of those TV watching hours creating something to inspire people who need what you offer? Perhaps you're a creator who gave it all up out of frustration.
I've been a cartoonist for over twenty years, with some hits but a ton more misses. Giving up and starting again is now a part of my backbone. If knocked down, you can come back to creating again, believe me.
Having so many choices for fun and amusement is fantastic, but I've discovered how the power of producing for others, no matter what you've been through, can change your life for the better.
Take a look at these three reasons to make time to share your talents.
1. Giving feels better than taking
Consuming content is exactly how it sounds—taking in and filling yourself without giving anything back. You're only working in one direction. It's my personal belief we're put here to give to the world more than we take.
If you look at it this way, figuring out what unique gifts you can share with the world is essential.
Very few people are fortunate enough to do what they love as a career. Add it to your life in some way.
You don't have to be on camera or pursuing internet fame and millions of rabid fans, but give yourself time each day to create something. Whether in the arts or being of service to others as a professional, helping your family or mentoring young people can help you give back in a fulfilling way.
2. Creating is its own reward
You don't need a large audience. Making or working on something that brings you joy is genuinely rewarding. A desire to improve, put in the work to get where you want to be, then you can share each step only if you choose.
Success and money aren't necessary. It's all about the making.
Sure, if you get so good, others can't help but notice you might have a hit on your hands, this may be a new direction to move into for success.
Enjoying doing what you love should be the primary goal, though.
I read a story about a young comedian who approached Jerry Seinfeld in a club one night and asked him for advice about marketing and exposure for his comedy career.
Hearing all this talk about exposure and marketing made Seinfeld feel queasy. He's a pure stand-up—a comedian's comedian. The legendary heads-down work ethic Seinfeld is known for giving the younger comedian the impression that's what he should ask about to get ahead. Nope.
"Just work on your act," Seinfeld said.
3. Building your legacy instead of others
There's nothing wrong with being remembered as someone who worked long hours providing for their family—making a better life for the people you love is an impressive accomplishment.
Think about if you're fortunate enough, like many people in the U.S., to have the means to pursue a craft or art skill to bring joy to others.
Your passions will be remembered and passed down through your family, inspiring future generations. It's not only about being remembered but leaving something more than money as your legacy.
Don't spend all your attention on something someone else built. Put time into making something your ancestors can be proud of after you're gone. Look, we all love Star Wars, but there are plenty of fans of that franchise.
Create yours.
Giving with your art makes it clear to others there's more out there than just working a job. You're here to inspire people, enjoy life, and show them you care for what's possible beyond endless hours of earning money to pay the bills.
Find your platform and express yourself
With our modern privilege, we can choose to watch the endless array of mindless, borderline embarrassing content out there but also use it to give back and make others feel awe.
Decide if you want to create in private or share it with your family or the world online. Your platform doesn't have to be a website destination—it can be in person.
Even if you feel like an amateur, you can inspire and thrill others with your creativity and positive energy.
One of the things I enjoy about making comic strips is knowing I can give someone I've never met before a laugh. Even if my work isn't hilarious, I like that I can bring a little joy to someone who might need it that day. It makes all the work hours feel like they matter to someone over just me.
Not sure what you can share with others?
Find a dance class or group to groove with and work out your frustrations through music and movement.
Write articles about topics that interest you and can help others learn new skills. Publish them on Medium and social media sites and observe the feedback you receive to shape how you grow and move forward.
Make a goal to fill a sketchbook with drawings of what you see around you. Sketch the people in your life. Then, share photos online of your finished pages.
Learn a new instrument or practice songs on the one you play well, then try writing songs you could share.
Be that listening ear for friends and family who need support. Giving your time to be fully present for others is a crucial skill to master.
Turning off the TV more and making time for creativity and care for others is your ticket to a fulfilling life.
Give more and see how each day gets better.
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